The Brock Family

Rochester, MN
$395.30 raised of $7,104.30
Utilities - Phone $465.00
1%
3 months
Mortgage/Rent $5,292.30
4%
3 months
Utilities – Electric $600.00
17%
3 months
Utilities – Gas $417.00
13%
3 months
Utilities - Internet $330.00
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    ZeKai Brock
    Injury/Illness
    Long term NICU journey

    Heartache turned hope – that’s the journey my husband and I have embarked on with our brave little fighter, ZeKai, who arrived into this world way too early and under challenging circumstances due to preeclampsia and rapid liver damage. Born at 32 weeks with a severe form of intrauterine growth restriction and a heart condition, ZeKai’s fighting spirit shines brightly in the NICU. Funds raised will support our family’s living expenses, allowing us to stay by ZeKai’s side without the added stress of financial burdens with my husbands lack of further paternity leave, and worries of having to return to work leaving our family in another City. 

    Every donation, no matter the size, directly impacts our family by providing us with a bit of breathing room. It means one less day of worry about finances and one more day spent focusing on what truly matters – ZeKai’s health and well-being.

    Our little miracle that was given to us, has made for a long stressful journey that continues. At our 20 week ultrasound we found out our son has a ventricular septal defect. We had met with a cardiologist at Rochester Mayo after finding this out who reassured us he would be able to be born with no issues, however following this appointment we had met with our maternal fetal medicine doctors who notified us he was growing in the smaller side. We had a follow up ultrasound 3 weeks later where he had dropped from the 11th percentile to the 7th percentile. This had given him the diagnosis of IUGR, they had wanted to do weekly BPP & Doppler ultrasounds as well as weekly NST testing. Following our next ultrasound he had been diagnosed with severe IUGR because he had dropped from the 7th percentile to the 2nd. There was no change in direction at that point, just to follow up weekly with our BPP & Doppler Ultrasounds and NST’s. Two of the weeks for NST’s we had been held, and then sent to Rochester for further monitoring. Our last hold in Rochester they had told us they would want to deliver him at 37 weeks and no later had his BPP’s stayed above passing and his dopplers had shown no signs of resistance. I had a follow up appointment that following Tuesday after being released on Saturday from Rochester. By Monday night (4/15/2024) I had questioned going into the hospital for pain I was having in my chest, I had waited through the night due to thinking it was too similar to gas pain and I was overreacting and I had an appointment scheduled the next day, by Tuesday morning I was unable to stay awake for long periods of time, the pain had gotten worse and it was getting hard to breathe, so my husband had taken off work to bring me to the emergency room. They had drawn my labs and seen that my liver enzymes had started to rise at a rapid rate. They decided to transfer me to Rochester again where they would do further testing and come up with a better plan. We had drawn more labs to check levels, in hopes we would be able to maintain the pregnancy until 34 weeks while being monitored in the hospital, my labs had come back around 6pm and our doctors decided on an emergency induction due to risk of full liver failure had we tried to maintain the pregnancy. 
    our son had made his entrance into the world on 4/17/2024 at 4:34 AM at 32 weeks gestation. 
    this has put a huge financial burden on our family as my husband has been out of work 3 weeks already, and we are unsure when we will be released or when he will be able to return to work. 

    June 7, 2024
    Home!

    42 days, 41 nights. 42 days of watching him grow, 42 days of learning, 41 sleepless nights. 42 days dividing my life in two to ensure all of my babies had time with Zekai, with I, Jordan to have time with Zekai, and to have time with Jordan. 41 heart wrenching, bittersweet, nights. 28 new nurses, 28 more people who took on the mommy role when I was not able to be there. 2 pediatric cardiologists, 6 ultrasound technicians, 3 lab staff, 6 nurse practitioners, 8 pediatric doctors, , 3 cleaning staff, 6 receptionists, 5 LPN’s, 7 CNA’s, mfm team, eye doctors, dermatologists, 17 SECURITY GUARDS who knew us by name, knew our sons date of birth by heart, his first and last name from the amount of times we had been checked in, who all treated us with so much love and respect. 42 days of meeting new friends and saying goodbye to friends at the Ronald McDonald House. 42 days of meeting people from different states, for all reasons, who’s hearts are so full of love fighting insanely heart aching battles, the kindest of people you could possibly meet. A quadrillion tears cried. 42 days of battling mental health, and heartaches, 42 days of reevaluating what is most important. 41 nights of horrible back aches from uncomfortable beds that were not ours. 42 days going through the HARDEST, most heartbreaking battle our family has EVER had to face. 

    Day one graduation ❤️ day one of new schedules, day one of new challenges WITH my family rather than separated, day one of new beginnings. Day one of a family’s beautiful new journey ❤️🥰  

    officially home! Lots of follow ups but it feels so good to be in our comfort place. Settling back in slowly, while also officially able to nest and get all of the baby stuff organized! It’ll be good to move forward and get back on our feet and back in a groove with all of our kiddos! 

    May 22, 2024
    Feeds

    Our little chonk is officially 4 lbs 14 oz! He is attempting bottles at every feeding. He has gone back and forth between the amounts each day. The last week respectively has been 32, then 38, then 36, then 52, then 38, and 53% orally last night. We talked to our doctors today about plans for food at home, because he is so small, we will continue him on HMF (human milk fortifier) until he reaches 7-8 lbs where we can wean him off. So mostly pumping & bottle feedings are going to take place, and then hopefully we can switch to full breastfeeding.  as soon as he can do 48 hours of 100% orally, we are able to go home. 🤞🏻🤞🏻 

    officially 5 weeks old! & 5 weeks NICU stay, we’re all ready to be home! 37 weeks adjusted age! 

    May 13, 2024
    Bottle feeds

    Everyday is a new day! We’re still working on feedings, he still isn’t happy with breast, so we are doing complete bottle now. He was at 19% orally as of yesterday, a little decrease in previous days. But still going strong! He is actually waking for each feeding now so we are attempting each time. He is now 4 lbs 1 oz! So steadily growing. Still no timeline of when we will be released and able to go home. Officially 26 days of NICU and Ronald McDonald house, everyone is getting a bit stir crazy, but I’m finally leaving the hospital more each day, so the other kids and I are able to spend actual time together, I think it’s been helpful for their moods as well. And Jordan has been able to visit and hold Kai a little more as well. 

    May 10, 2024
    Incubator gone!

    New crib in the room, one step closer to going home 🤞🏻 we’re going on four weeks!  my husband was able to take another 6 weeks at half pay, so he will not have to leave us!  working on feedings since Wednesday, he had one bottle 25/35 mL today! And a few at 3-7 mL!!  spending Mother’s Day in the hospital and not home with everyone will be a different feel, but the clinic and the Ronald McDonald house were able to provide us Mother’s Day celebrations on Thursday! So incredibly grateful for all of the support and love we have received from our hospital staff and the Ronald McDonald house! The emotional support dogs seem to help the other kiddos with a little distraction when they have to leave mama again. Soon 🤞🏻

    May 7, 2024
    Mom

    Day 20 in the NICU: ZeKai took 24/34 mL by bottle and did a 20 minute breastfeed today! The two really exhausted him, so we skipped any bottle or breast attempts this afternoon.  the past week with the attempts we have seen increases in his bradycardia incidents and in his O2 levels following, 02 consistently was dropping to 70-80% after oral feeds and heart rate bradycardia was happening back to back and at one point had dropped to 55. But today, he has not had any decline in either following feeds!  he has a hemangioma on his left shoulder we had met with dermatology over and they do not believe we need to start treatment at this time, and we can follow up with that between 4-6 months after being released from the NICU.  as of now we are on a guessing game of when we could possibly be released, tomorrow would make his corrected gestational age 35 weeks, so we are able to try the feedings more frequently with less cues, however there must be at least 2-3 cues prior to the next feeding.  the doctors and nurses were hopeful we would be released by tomorrow, but we take every day with even the small steps as a new victory and bringing us closer to going home.  our 6, 4, and 3 year olds have been taking full advantage of spending as much time with the emotional support dogs the Ronald McDonald house has been bringing in. They were finally able to hold their baby brother with assistance, and the love they all have for him just melts our hearts. ❤️